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Vincetomic says (12:42 AM):
my writer smsed me today at 10 30
am
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:43 AM):
oh
wat about?
Vincetomic says (12:43 AM):
to tell me that she wld be late coz moving grandfather (i assume to a different ward/hospital)
so i blew it
sms conversation
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:43 AM):
but she's got anymore things to submit?
Vincetomic says (12:43 AM):
told her that when she keeps telling me that she'll be late minutes before we're expecting her to come in, it strains her credibility
and that it has turned into a trust issue
Vincetomic says (12:44 AM):
so she said sorry again
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:44 AM):
hmm sorrie just going a bit off tangent here
thought staying to official times aint exactly a huge requirement in your job
Vincetomic says (12:44 AM):
it isn't
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:44 AM):
so wats wrong with coming in late
Vincetomic says (12:44 AM):
wrong is when you tell me minutes before you're due
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:44 AM):
does she have something she's due to submit?
Vincetomic says (12:45 AM):
okay is when you tell me half hour plus in advance
what am i , just a last priorityu
boss coming back today
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:45 AM):
ok.. something due.. that changes things
Vincetomic says (12:45 AM):
and if you know grandfather shifting ward
these are things u know way in advance
not last minute kind
due as in due to come in office
she already comes in at 10 30
Vincetomic says (12:46 AM):
coz she says she has a ride down and its a special privilege i made for her
fine
nvm, i just keep my trap shut coz she told this to my boss
but then there's at least one occasion that boss came in
and she';s not in
at the time she';s suipposed to be in
boss is not always in office
when she is in, she needs things done
everything is very high key
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:47 AM):
yeah understand
Vincetomic says (12:47 AM):
im not in office all the time
coz i work weird hours and i earned that
which is why we hired someone
for someone to be in all the time
Vincetomic says (12:48 AM):
anyway i told her that my goodwill has a shelf life and that i've already given her a world of latitude
the first few months, she was always on mc once a week
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:48 AM):
she's a slacker
Vincetomic says (12:48 AM):
then it was her finance problems with a loanshark deal left over frm her dad which i helped solved
then now its grandpa dying
for pete's sake
suay also not suay until like this right
Vincetomic says (12:49 AM):
then i ask u
grandpa dying, u not fall sick anymore is it
her stories are convincing
which is why i feel like crap now for telling her off
imagine i got to tell someone to not let her dying grandpa affect her work
coz she's been so fucking sketchy work wise
Vincetomic says (12:50 AM):
im a bit pissed that i have to feel like crap for just doing myu job
also
she said her hands were full so she cldn't sms me earlier
what is wrong with a phone call then???
Vincetomic says (12:51 AM):
its alweays some damn thing
i tell you, every single day i receive an sms in the morning
i just straightaway assume its her
with some excuse for being late
dog is sick
mum is not well
dad's creditors are at house
grandpa is moving waresd
grandpa might be dying
the fuck i care anymore
i jsut told her im not interested in the reasons anymore
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:51 AM):
sje
Vincetomic says (12:52 AM):
seriously man
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:52 AM):
she's one troubled kid
Vincetomic says (12:52 AM):
its been 6 months
what the fuck is her fucking problem
i already told her not to abuse the word sorry
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:52 AM):
heh she's not focused
Vincetomic says (12:52 AM):
then she still say "sorry will not happen again"
so i said "don't say that. what about genunie emergencies. re: managing expectations"
Vincetomic says (12:53 AM):
even if her grandda is really dying
she got to have some common fucking sense and see how far she has stretched her credibility with me
fuck her man.
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:54 AM):
chill chill
Vincetomic says (12:54 AM):
i run a super tight ship coz im dying here
and she's fucking it all up
i didbn't hire someone to have to deal with her shit
im on a 3 strike count.
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:55 AM):
ok... so wats next? once she's striked out
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (12:55 AM):
hire someone else
she may have all that family responsibility on her
tough shit
that means she got to treasure this job all the much more
considering the amount of niceness i am already
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (12:56 AM):
make a choice
im paying her bills
if she can't get her head around that
she can waltz out
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:56 AM):
ok... so when would you reckon she'll actually hit the 3rd strike?
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (12:56 AM):
soon enough.
every month has been a trial so far
i don't ask for a lot
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (12:57 AM):
come to work as you promise, manage my expectations, deliver what you promise
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:57 AM):
yeah..
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (12:57 AM):
like this also cannot
what the fuck can.
really am very pissed with her.
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:57 AM):
better start hunting replacements
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (12:58 AM):
won't la
just go back to freelance till i find one lor
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (12:58 AM):
ok
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (12:58 AM):
almost wanted to ask her what's her chance of surviving any other job outside
than with mine
then always say sorry
sorry is so fucking cheap
sorry doesn't get my work done
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (12:59 AM):
i told her i don't wanna hear sorry
then she can be defensive some more
actually it can be just a 1 strike
she just need to piss me off just once
and i'll jsut tell my boss to fire her ass
'coz either she goes or i do
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:00 AM):
her problem can become my problem
is a classic NEVER SHIT WHERE YOU EAT no no
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (1:00 AM):
haha
ok
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:04 AM):
so anyway
she came in late
so i told her to consider it a half day leave
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (1:04 AM):
uh-huh
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:04 AM):
to be fair to the rest of my colleagues who take half day if they come in late
and she comes in late nearly every day
i think yesterday she was in at 1
11
and im pretty darn sure she left at six plus
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (1:04 AM):
gee
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:04 AM):
of course that pissed me off
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (1:04 AM):
ok... thats majorly pushing it
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:05 AM):
the other girls think im playing favourites
which i don't blame them
i promised her job flexibility at the interview
but i didn't promise "whatever you like"

Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:06 AM):
im not tight on time but im tight on expectations
anyway
since when have u heard of people coming back frm hospital at 1am
visting hours are not even till then
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (1:06 AM):
uh-huh
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (1:09 AM):
sorrie.... am zoning out... slept lil last night
gonna crash
•~•Seductive Shimmer•~• says (1:10 AM):
do lemme know when you'ved striked her
nitez


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Gina says (12:51 AM):
have u seen charice's singing?
Vincetomic says (12:53 AM):
who
Gina says (12:53 AM):
//www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8fR2jroUxE
Gina says (1:06 AM):
her singing is very good. i cry
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:06 AM):
have not seen it
am ranting abt my writer
to antoher msn friend
Gina says (1:06 AM):
what abt now?
Gina says (1:07 AM):
still no good never improve?
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:07 AM):
smse'd me today at 10 30 to say she will be in late coz shifting grandpa ward
you know what , shifting wards does not happen last minute and in her fucking e extended family she's not the sole person responsble for it, not like she have to be one of the orderlies to lift the man up onto a trolley
she's due in at 10 30
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:08 AM):
10 30 then she sms me
then my boss coming back today
Gina says (1:08 AM):
hiyoh
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:08 AM):
don't see her, sure question me
and as usual im like dumbfuck, dunno where she is
Gina says (1:08 AM):
yup
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:08 AM):
a bit earlier only and i'd be screwed
im really darn pissed with her
first 2 months, every week mc
Gina says (1:08 AM):
attitude
no good
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:08 AM):
then become dad's creditors
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:09 AM):
then i helped her with that finance
then clear right? now become granddad dying
how much more i got to take?
i hire people for fuck
hire them to have problems to solve? they never heard of getting a sick pet meh?
so today i told her off and said my goodwill has a shelf life
Gina says (1:09 AM):
yep
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:10 AM):
'and she can consider today a half day leave to be fair to my other colleagues who take half day emergency leave in similar circumstances
and they already think im playing favourites
Gina says (1:10 AM):
oh man
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:10 AM):
best of all i can feel bad about it
because her grandfather is DYING
Gina says (1:10 AM):
then she shld just take leave
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:10 AM):
the hell lor!
im a nice guy
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:11 AM):
she just went ahead and took 500% advantage of it
no need leave
Gina says (1:11 AM):
yep not good
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:11 AM):
no need return favours
not need to turn stories in as promised coz "sorry just returned from hospital":
my fucking problem
Gina says (1:11 AM):
u scold her but she knows what u mean?
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:11 AM):
now i know why editors are such bitches
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:12 AM):
if she dunno
she do not deserve to be my writer
then can say sorry
Gina says (1:12 AM):
how long more u gonna give her?
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:12 AM):
after i told her she always say sorry but i don't want sorry
i thought 3 strikes
but actually im thinking just one.
because my life is not easy.
Gina says (1:12 AM):
ok
yep
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:12 AM):
yesterday i woke up
hearing the sound of my mum crying and my dad being pissed at her
so i go to see what's up
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:13 AM):
u know why she was crying?
i dunno either but i highly suspect is coz her head off the pillow and she not comfy
and she frustrated and depressed and who wld not be
so cry... coz talking also nobody can understand her
Gina says (1:13 AM):
sigh
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:13 AM):
so i don't have room for her crap
Gina says (1:13 AM):
yes it is frustrating
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:13 AM):
i also have a sick cat
which take time away frm my work and frm home where i shld be
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:14 AM):
i have to give 300 ml of fluids a day and 2 rounds of 3 medicines
WHERE HAVE I GOT TIME TO HELP SOMEONE IM PAYING
Gina says (1:14 AM):
yep
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:14 AM):
fuck, you know, some people
she know all this
its just simple la.
we are not her priority
as soon as i can see that for sure
Gina says (1:14 AM):
need to be professional also
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:14 AM):
i kick her ass out my door
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:15 AM):
she care abt her family more
so ok
fine
don't forget work is what pays the bills to care for family
if cannot see it
sorry but i see it
every cent i can't earn is money taken away frm my familiy
Gina says (1:15 AM):
yep
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:15 AM):
she can find someone else to employ her to be absent and 50% present
Gina says (1:15 AM):
yep yep
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:15 AM):
i can tell you sincerely i tried my best to help her
Gina says (1:16 AM):
yep
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:16 AM):
i got her a bank loan to pay off her debts
on my own accountability
Gina says (1:16 AM):
very nicce of u
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:16 AM):
so im done here
how many idiots in this world wld be so helpful
and she must surely know the price of that
yet can still burn me
sat evening i was waiting for her stories
sunday came and nothing
Gina says (1:17 AM):
=(
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:17 AM):
only after i changed my msn nick to "It's officially sunday. and. officially pissed off. where are my stories?"
then one minute after text me and say "sorry just got back frm hospital"
"sendin you now"
Gina says (1:17 AM):
she was on msn???
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:17 AM):
do you believe?
coz i don'
t
where got so immediately send me msg if just come back frm hospital?
Gina says (1:17 AM):
yep
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:18 AM):
u never see my blood boil like this over a writer
coz honestly i never done so much for a writer
cover her ass
Gina says (1:18 AM):
quite bad
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:18 AM):
loan her money
put my own credibility on the line based on her promsie
so... jsut one strike
and she's gone.
economy is good
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:19 AM):
many ppl looking for something they can be passionate abt
Gina says (1:19 AM):
ya
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:19 AM):
i hate to be mean but i hate to cost my family
and i will regret that more than anything else'
so bring it on.
just try me.
Gina says (1:19 AM):
just move on with new writer
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:19 AM):
i just made up my mind while talking to you.
Gina says (1:20 AM):
ok
Vincetomic - im on a 3 strike count. says (1:20 AM):
u dun let your familiy down, i applaud you
but you let me down
and im more than family at the moment. i pay your bills, i help you when everyone else let you down, i stick my own neck out for you at my expense.
so you are gone very very soon. sooner than you know.
Gina says (1:21 AM):
yep yep


Yea. I guess I *am* very cheesed off.

Goodwill has a shelf life. Your family is more important than your job? Then I'll make sure my family is more important than *your* job.

That's the last word.